The only thing violent I find of a firearm is the recoil. Now, I do admit that most firearms are (by definition) extremely powerful or forceful and capable of causing damage, but it takes a pull of the trigger to make it so, and to make it so we have to assume that the firearm has been prepared to fire a cartridge. Otherwise, it is a convenient item to hold down a stack of papers on a windy day.
My firearm has never, and will never, do anything that I don't want it to do.